Proverbs 13

1 A wise son hears his father's instruction,
    but a scoffer does not listen to rebuke.
From the fruit of his mouth a man eats what is good,
    but the desire of the treacherous is for violence.
Whoever guards his mouth preserves his life;
    he who opens wide his lips comes to ruin.
The soul of the sluggard craves and gets nothing,
    while the soul of the diligent is richly supplied.
The righteous hates falsehood,
    but the wicked brings shame and disgrace.
Righteousness guards him whose way is blameless,
    but sin overthrows the wicked.
One pretends to be rich, yet has nothing;
    another pretends to be poor, yet has great wealth.
The ransom of a man's life is his wealth,
    but a poor man hears no threat.
The light of the righteous rejoices,
    but the lamp of the wicked will be put out.
10 By insolence comes nothing but strife,
    but with those who take advice is wisdom.
11 Wealth gained hastily will dwindle,
    but whoever gathers little by little will increase it.
12 Hope deferred makes the heart sick,
    but a desire fulfilled is a tree of life.
13 Whoever despises the word brings destruction on himself,
    but he who reveres the commandment will be rewarded.
14 The teaching of the wise is a fountain of life,
    that one may turn away from the snares of death.
15 Good sense wins favor,
    but the way of the treacherous is their ruin.
16 Every prudent man acts with knowledge,
    but a fool flaunts his folly.
17 A wicked messenger falls into trouble,
    but a faithful envoy brings healing.
18 Poverty and disgrace come to him who ignores instruction,
    but whoever heeds reproof is honored.
19 A desire fulfilled is sweet to the soul,
    but to turn away from evil is an abomination to fools.
20 Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise,
    but the companion of fools will suffer harm.
21 Disaster pursues sinners,
    but the righteous are rewarded with good.
22 A good man leaves an inheritance to his children's children,
    but the sinner's wealth is laid up for the righteous.
23 The fallow ground of the poor would yield much food,
    but it is swept away through injustice.
24 Whoever spares the rod hates his son,
    but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him.
25 The righteous has enough to satisfy his appetite,
    but the belly of the wicked suffers want.

We have 25 incredible verses in Proverbs 13 full of nuggets of wisdom, but today we’re just going to look at verse 20 to consider who we are doing life with both in-person and online. Our answers just might help us see whether we are setting ourselves up to be wise or foolish people.

Pause: Whoever walks with the wise will be wise but the companion of fools will suffer harm (vs. 20).

Ponder: Who are speaking into my life on a daily basis? How do I feel after I spend time with them face-to-face or read their social media posts? Do their words bring me life and wisdom for daily life or am I suffering harm because of my interaction with them? Have I sought out wise women to walk through life with me? Do I listen and heed their words and model my life after their godly examples?

Pray: Lord, help me do the often hard thing of evaluating the voices in my life. Give me the courage to cut off all that doesn’t bring me life. May the company of the wise fill my friend list. May I seek fruitful pursuits in person and online for my good and Your glory.

— Jaime Sherman